any advice from ppl who have made a big turn around,dropped bad habits and got out of a rut.|||First decide what you want out of life then take steps to make it happen. Just sitting thinking about it will achieve nothing and you will be in the same chair, thinking the same thoughts, in a years time.|||Work to live
Don%26#039;t live to work|||Move area new job|||Buy a gun|||have you looked into the air force reserves or air nat%26#039;l guard?|||Well I was in a right rut and after months of thinking I decided that if I wanted my life to change I had to do something as nothing would change if I left things as they were. I went to the doctor and got medication for depression - that was the first step. I then thought about exactly what i needed to do to change my life. For me this was moving back home. for you it might be going back to college. In the end the sooner you make the effort to change your life, the sooner things will change. If you don%26#039;t make the change, your life will continue as is. that%26#039;s your choice. Do you want to change, or carry on as you are?|||I still have alot of big changes to make but to start off I write out and oath to myself promising to change the things that I can and every morning I remind myself of what I need to do to get to where I want to be..I made and oath to become more responsible and Ive had a job for 2months even though many people thought I couldnt handle it,Ive been going to school and not skipping/ditching AND! doing any work now I went from fs and ds to as cs and bs and am on my last year of higschool of to college soon which was something I thought I%26#039;d never ever go to but I think Ive changed alot and have higher standards for myself..anyways I hope this helps atleast a little lol and dont give up on yourself! whatever you want to change the power is in your hands,just dont let anything anyone including yourself hold you back! Take Care =P|||You must first believe that you can change. Then, you just do it. I need help from God, most people do. Otherwise change is very difficult as well as believing you can change.|||the only way you can do it is by doing it yourself, by getting back in control of your life and feelings and make yourself happy no one will do that for you and in my experience people will always let you down weather they mean to or not.|||Move to a new place and start again.|||Its a bit radical but you could die,joking.Pick what you can change,then what you think you can change,then hope for the best,good luck.|||sit back. take stock of your life. if you don%26#039;t like what you see......change it!
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